In short
At a doctor visit about memory changes, ask what could be causing them, which tests are needed to rule out treatable causes, what type of dementia it may be, what treatments and support exist, how to keep your parent safe, whether driving is still safe, and what to watch for next. Bring examples and a medicine list.
Written by the Senior Choice Care teamUpdated October 9, 2026. Facts are checked against the sources listed at the end of this page. General information; every family is different.
Questions for the doctor
Questions families ask
What should I bring to the appointment?
A list of medicines, examples of changes, and these questions.
Can memory problems be treatable?
Some causes are, NIA notes, such as vitamin deficiencies and medicine side effects.
Should I ask about driving?
Yes. NIA says at some point it will no longer be safe to drive.
Can I talk to the doctor privately?
Ask; many doctors will speak with family with the patient's permission.